On my first night in Budapest, an older man approached me as I was walking back to Balazs' apartment. He began rambling in Hungarian--of course, I understood nothing. (I know only one word in Hungarian: ''Borat'' means friend.) So I pointed at myself, said ''American,'' pointed at him, said ''Borat,'' and then he did the strangest thing. As soon as I said ''American,'' he stopped talking, got down on one knee, crossed himself, and gave me a coin. Balazs told me he thought the old man was crazy. I kind of agree, but it was nice anyway.
The next day, Balazs gave me a tour of Budapest--we went to all the standard tourist haunts, but also visited a few lesser known sights. We attended an orthodox wedding in a synagogue in the old Jewish ghetto; as we left, Balazs told me that Jews had been rounded up in that very synagogue and sent to Auschwitz. It was difficult to reconcile the joy of the wedding with the sorrowful history of the place.
I didn't really want to leave Budapest, but I had to get moving again, so I took the train south to Belgrade. People all over Budapest had looked at me like I was crazy when I said I was going to Turkey via the Balkans, saying things like, ''The Balkans? You may want to rethink that.'' I didn't really understand their hesitance until I got on the train.
The first train--to Belgrade--was very enjoyable. I talked about about the war and life in the Balkans with a group of Serbs, and met a Spanish guy headed to Greece. (The two of us would travel together from the next day or so.) Unfortunately, our goodbyes were rushed, because Horacio (the Spaniard) and I had to rush to catch our connection to Sofia.
''Rush'' isn't really the right word. We sprinted to the ticket booth, bought our tickets, and then ran to the platform, where we saw our train pulling away. But being young, seemingly immortal young men, we did not through up our hands and wait for the next one--we chased it, smacking door handles, searching for an unlocked cabin as we ran. Just before the platform ended, we hopped aboard the accelerating train, leaving behind the shouts (of encouragement?) of the crowded station.
We were then confronted by a very angry Serbian stewardess yelling at us in yet another unfamiliar language: all we understood was ''First Class!'' and that no-goods like us were certainly not welcome in ''First Class!'' So we made our way to smoky second class, where we spent a night befriending a multi-national band of smugglers. Their contraband that night was a load of cigarettes, which they concealed in the light fixtures of our Soviet-made wagon. Those thousands of illicit cigarettes, the choking smoke, the clickity-clack of the rails, and stifling heat made for a long night.
Horacio and I spent a few hours in Sofia, trying to find its sights. We were unsuccessful. A friendly girl in the train station suggested that we visit the national palace of culture--in its place we found what looked like a giant shopping mall with no entrances. All we really did in Sofia was get lost and offend a group of female university students. Let's not get into how. Horacio and I parted ways that afternoon, as he went off to Greece and I caught a train to Istanbul.
I spent a week in Istanbul. The daily journal I keep includes the phrase ''got lost'' on almost every page. Streets in Turkey weren't named until the late 19th or early 20th century, and most are still unsigned. That, coupled with my mediocre Turkish, kept me wandering in ever-larger circles for much of my visit. But that was okay--I ended up in some neat places while lost.
My days in Istanbul quickly became routine and enjoyable--I would go to a sight or two in the morning, and then read and work on my Turkish in the afternoon. I'm getting better, but there's one problem: I say simple things (like ''where is...'' and ''what is this'') with almost no accent. This convinces people that I speak good Turkish, so they respond with rapid, complicated Turkish. My evident confusion quickly convinces them otherwise, and they repeat with simple words and gestures. Then I understand.
Through couchsurfing, I met a good number of wonderful people in Istanbul--both Turks and foreigners. I split my time between the flats of two remarkably welcoming hosts. Alix, an Iranian living in the UK temporarily in Istanbul (a little complicated, yes), hosted me for a while; and Hakan, a Turkish lawyer, hosted me for three more days. I also met lots of people for coffee or a drink to talk about politics and Turkish life--yes, that is the project I am doing here. It's a lot of fun.
Now I am in Ankara, the rather boring capital, where I am staying with Isra and Hakan (siblings), and their Belgian exchange student. I made them pancakes this morning--neither of the Turks had ever had them before. Can you imagine living your whole life without eating pancakes? It sounds terrible.
I will be back in Istanbul in three weeks, but first I will travel south to Antalya (on the Mediterranean coast) and west from there along the sea. I am eager to move again.
P.S. Below you'll find an essay about Turkey's relationship with Europe--anyone interested in politics or the history of this region might like to read it. I'll be posting these essays in between my personal stories.
